I came across this great story as I was reading Piper’s blog earlier which features the story of a man who when asked for his wallet at knifepoint, handed over his coat as well so his would-be mugger could stay warm.
It begs the question, “How far are we willing to go to help and serve those who hate us or mean us harm?” For me this is a tough one. In many ways it would be easy for me to make the same decision the guy in the story did. At the same time, if this were the third, fourth, or fifth time I had experienced such a thing I would probably think twice before handing over my coat.
The story reminds me of an experience my wife had at our last church while serving in a volunteer role. She was asked to help out with the Youth and gladly agreed to do so. Over a period of months, anytime she had a question or asked for help, repetitively she was ignored and treated with a sort of willful neglect. Until one day, without any thing being communicated to her, she attempted to log into her volunteer email address only to find it had been deleted.
So she acted much like the guy in the story who extended his coat after being asked for his wallet. After extending a helping hand in one area only to have it rejected, she did her best to shrug it off and moved on to serve as a greeter on Sundays. Unfortunately she experienced similar lack of communication-going as far as to just show up early every Sunday because she never knew which Sundays they needed her. After experiencing many similar circumstances myself, my wife and I decided it was time to move on.
So, how far are we willing to go?. How far starts by realizing that our treasure is in heaven and whatever we have here, we are but temporary stewards of. How far we are willing to go may need to end when we realize that what we have extended in service gets mismanaged time and time again. Wise use of what we have been entrusted with is the key. We would do well to remember the Parable of the Talents, because one day the Master will return to reclaim what is his.
So give your wallet, go as far as to extend your coat, and give with joy more of yourself than you ever think you ought to give. But, time after time, when you see no fruit, no change of heart, do as Jesus instructed us to do and shake the sand from your shoes as you leave the village.